tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post3064504421071287427..comments2023-11-03T10:19:43.472+00:00Comments on twinklyspangle: Going to France next week...Katy Cloudshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02342209589152936307noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post-63433190437281105962010-03-24T13:14:12.423+00:002010-03-24T13:14:12.423+00:00Hi, what a dilemma, I have no solutions either, in...Hi, what a dilemma, I have no solutions either, in the end you have to decide and whatever decision you make will be the right one. It does sound like the relationship is the only thing holding you back so you only have to chose between him or France. Only!!<br /><br />Are any of your workmates going too? Do you think they would be supportive? on your own in a foreign country with a small child could be very stressful but then again, France..I wanted to live in France a few years back and it is lovely..<br /><br />Hard choicesVioletstonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09040950838102155299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post-68663886075177238502010-03-23T10:16:10.963+00:002010-03-23T10:16:10.963+00:00It's your chance... take it. THe UK is full of...It's your chance... take it. THe UK is full of scrat bags, Jeremy Kyle, bad food, alcoholism, etc. France has a fantastic quality of life. It doesn't have to be forever. Gosh, tough. I was in a similar situation three years ago and I sacked my partner and have never looked back. The opportunities that presented themselves since I got rid of someone who, although I loved. drained me of my creativity and drive... I'm glad I took the opportunity. Sometimes you have to think about number 1, plus, your son would have a better quality of life in France..<br /><br />... stressful times xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04483154088860237621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post-30878207868627265552010-03-22T19:46:12.691+00:002010-03-22T19:46:12.691+00:00I can't offer you the answer but I can tell yo...I can't offer you the answer but I can tell you from my short experience of life that you get one chance. . . just ONE. . . please don't screw it up over a man there are many of them on this earth and if he is the only reason you are not sure of going then perhaps it's time to take the plunge and go it without him. <br />France is a beautiful country, it's close to the UK and relatively cheap to travel to/from for visiting home.<br />See how you feel after a week there and then make up your mind based on what you want for you and your son. <br />Good Luck.Christals Creationshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03013146324253591752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post-57879071252490733752010-03-22T13:58:37.803+00:002010-03-22T13:58:37.803+00:00Oh wow.
The only reason I can see from your post ...Oh wow.<br /><br />The only reason I can see from your post that you wouldn't want to go is because your partner doesn't want to go. Isn't he also unemployed? Some of your tweets don't make him sound like the most supportive guy in the world. Obviously we don't know all the details of your relationship and why he doesn't want to move but from what you've said in the past, I would hate to see him hold you back from this amazing opportunity unless there's a very good reason. <br /><br />Will the company help with childcare if you move by yourself? France has a pretty generous welfare system so perhaps you can look into state-run nurseries etc. France is an amazing country, and it's not a million miles away from the UK - from the south of England it's easier to get to than Scotland! See how you feel after your visit next week - and trust your gut instinct - it's normally right.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06229103651676525730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post-82286003925501799952010-03-21T09:09:27.900+00:002010-03-21T09:09:27.900+00:00I have no answers for you.
But it is an opportuni...I have no answers for you.<br /><br />But it is an opportunity that might not come again. And what an expereince for you and your son.<br /><br />It is a hard decision to make and I do not envy you.Bigbluebedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07120251585905660122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6989605071680622096.post-46357793826783114202010-03-20T19:10:43.902+00:002010-03-20T19:10:43.902+00:00No magic solution - I think what you have to ask y...No magic solution - I think what you have to ask youself is are you likely to be in the same place and same situation in 5 years time, and if so are you going to be happy with that? If not why not take this chance to change things?Confessions of crafty mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07433371348525999984noreply@blogger.com